Hi, I hope someone can advise me as I don't know wherelse to ask.
I'm ex forces of 14 years and have since done 3.5 years of CP. My wife is now disabled after the birth of our 3rd child went horribly wrong so I quit working abroad and got a basic security job at a shopping centre so I could be close by.
2 months ago I received a section 39 caution for common assault. I was driving to work and a group of youths started throwing stones at my car whilst I was stopped at a roundabout. I carried on driving to the opposite side of the roundabout to the petrol station where I filled up and realised they had caused quite significant damage to my car. I turned round, found the group and approached the 'ringleader' to get his address so I could get his parents to compensate me for the damage - damage I can't afford to repair myself. The group quickly surrounded me and the ringleader spat at me and was really getting in my face. Now, these were only teens, I'm talking 14/15 years old so obviously I didn't want to go to extreme lengths to defend myself. I did however, grab him by the collar and push him backwards (as he was about to swing a punch at me), to put distance between us. I deemed this to be reasonable force - he didn't fall to the ground and he was injured in no way. It was left at that and I continued to work. Anyway, the lads mother reported me and the police said even though he was unharmed, it was still assault to push him and 'how can a 14y/o seem a threat to a grown man?'. My answer of course was, "when you've had mates blown up by 10year olds, you come ask me that question". The police officer and the solicitor said I'd get a harsher punishment at court and advised I take the caution, which I did.
I sent a letter mid June to the SIA explaining the situation, along with a letter from my solicitor corroborating my story and I heard nothing more. Today I received a letter saying my licence has been revoked as I hadn't responded to their letter of July 8th, which I genuinely didn't receive, and I've to go through the courts now. I have emailed explaining how the caution occurred, that I wrote them a letter and that I didn't receive theirs and requesting my opportunity to satisfy them via other means before resorting to court hearings.
Do you think they may let me do this? More importantly, do you think I have a chance of keeping my licence? As I said, I'm a father of 3 very young children, I have a disabled wife and a clean record other than this.
Thanks guys
I'm ex forces of 14 years and have since done 3.5 years of CP. My wife is now disabled after the birth of our 3rd child went horribly wrong so I quit working abroad and got a basic security job at a shopping centre so I could be close by.
2 months ago I received a section 39 caution for common assault. I was driving to work and a group of youths started throwing stones at my car whilst I was stopped at a roundabout. I carried on driving to the opposite side of the roundabout to the petrol station where I filled up and realised they had caused quite significant damage to my car. I turned round, found the group and approached the 'ringleader' to get his address so I could get his parents to compensate me for the damage - damage I can't afford to repair myself. The group quickly surrounded me and the ringleader spat at me and was really getting in my face. Now, these were only teens, I'm talking 14/15 years old so obviously I didn't want to go to extreme lengths to defend myself. I did however, grab him by the collar and push him backwards (as he was about to swing a punch at me), to put distance between us. I deemed this to be reasonable force - he didn't fall to the ground and he was injured in no way. It was left at that and I continued to work. Anyway, the lads mother reported me and the police said even though he was unharmed, it was still assault to push him and 'how can a 14y/o seem a threat to a grown man?'. My answer of course was, "when you've had mates blown up by 10year olds, you come ask me that question". The police officer and the solicitor said I'd get a harsher punishment at court and advised I take the caution, which I did.
I sent a letter mid June to the SIA explaining the situation, along with a letter from my solicitor corroborating my story and I heard nothing more. Today I received a letter saying my licence has been revoked as I hadn't responded to their letter of July 8th, which I genuinely didn't receive, and I've to go through the courts now. I have emailed explaining how the caution occurred, that I wrote them a letter and that I didn't receive theirs and requesting my opportunity to satisfy them via other means before resorting to court hearings.
Do you think they may let me do this? More importantly, do you think I have a chance of keeping my licence? As I said, I'm a father of 3 very young children, I have a disabled wife and a clean record other than this.
Thanks guys