I think women often have many advantages over men in cp work. I guess that although sometimes the fact that we may not have the strength of our counterparts we may have the advantage of looking more natural. Nobody takes much notice of an aide with a smart office outfit and briefcase or another casually dressed woman accompanying another to lunch. Who knows if there is just eyeliner and lipstick in that briefcase!? And we don't dress like squaddies on the piss like a lot of guys do! 