Bullitt, i joined the RMP in 88 and left in 95 joining the RUC. Was my previous experience welcomed with open arms, no. I had a ball in the depot, got in with loads of former RM's and RUCR and then went to my station and reality set in. I was very proactive and this was looked down on by my new section mates, so i understand your thoughts on this subject.
However, you of all people with your military service should understand that their is a game to play especially in an interview. I have seen many people in the Police not get the jobs they were very suitable for because they failed to hit the points/buzz words.
It is a sad fact that education quals are taking on more importance in the Police. I know several very well educated people who could build a computer, explain what each part does in great detail, but couldnt find the socket to plug it in. That doesnt bother me, they want promotion and to go to meetings, sit behind a desk and play manager. Let them. The ex forces(mostly) or the guys/girls who wished they had joined are the ones who are making the difference being good coppers, doing the sfo,arv,surv,mountain rescue,k9... you get my point. A place is no doubt waiting for you in the Police, just play the game and get yourself in and find the job that suits your talents.
Regards
M